Someone somewhere is made for you

Someone somewhere is made for you, very catchy line......, can't get it out of head. Just wondering how many of us still beleive in it though, nice line to be said when u have a sour heart. 

Though i did beleive in it years ago as a teenager, the tender feelings, the innocent thoughts, those where the years of dreams. There's this Peter pan in all of us that never lets us grow, still clinging to the idea of the "soulmate" thing, the complete man/woman. 

What makes a relationship complete, is it the loving, caring, understanding old punch line or in today's timeline "the compatibility quotient". You can be poles apart, share different interests /likes/dislikes, yet could be one skin together.

Always wondered how people in inter-racial relationships live n be in love, or inter faith unions work. And yet the scenario of arranged marriages with all the open commitment & vows fall apart.

I've known a friend of mine, who loved this guy immensely right from the first day of college, 4yrs of togetherness was everything for her, when they parted ways it seemed end of life for her. Yet she's happily married with a total stranger now though.

So is it the experience from past relationships or destiny that decides a blissful relationship, or is it that the person made for you just happens to bump into you at odd phases of life.

As someone wisely said........

"Before you grow up you must fall in love  3times.....

Once you must fall in love with your best friend, ruining your friendship forever,

this will teach you who your true friends are, n the fine line between friendship 'n more.

Once you must fall in love with someone you beleive is perfect. You will learn, that no one is perfect, 'n that you should never be treated as anything less than you deserve.

And once you must fall in love with someone that is exactly like you.

This will teach you about who you are.....'n who you want to be.

And when you are through with all that, you learn that the people who care about the most are the ones that you hurt....!!!!

'n the ones that hurt you are the ones that needed you the most...." 

A hit n run scenario, just when you think you have found that someone special you realise your folly or just missed the bus....or  waited too long for the decisions to be made.

We learn from our mistakes and the choices we make have a lasting impression on our future,'n there's nothing more special than to still beleive in LOVE even with a broken heart for that someone special to mend it, accept you completely....

Then how do we know who is that someone made only for me is.......

If  someone  wants to be a part of your life, they will make an obvious attempt to do so........to love you ,accept you for who you are, with your flaws without wanting to change you. 

And the one who loves you for need is not the one, need is greed. And when greed creeps in relationships go sour, so let yourself loose, love just happens when you least expect it to 'n at odd unexpected places.......hhmmm.......well then destiny 'n time  decide when you meet that someone made for you......

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